Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

1. Why did you start offering this service?

I’ve always been fascinated by the dynamics of trust, control, and discipline in consensual relationships and personal growth journeys. I started this service because I saw an opportunity to help people explore these dynamics in a safe, professional, and respectful way.

2. What makes you qualified to hold someone’s keys?

I have a history of working in the gay community, from Pride and Kink events, to working in gay saunas, so have been exposed to many different practises, kinks and customs of all kinds.

Having held many roles of responsibility, I understand what is needed to protecting peoples privacy and take this very seriously, I want all of my clients to feel safe in my hands, and enjoy the world of chastity to the fullest.

3. How did you get interested in chastity practices?

I first became interested in chastity through my partner. I knew of the practise, but I didn’t truly know the power of chastity until I started asking questions and taking the position of his key holder. I found that key holding can be a meaningful way to support others in their goals, whether for personal discipline, relationship exploration, or other reasons.

4. How does the service work?

Once we agree on the terms of service and what you are looking for such as specific dates, lock times, tasks, or other arrangements decided beforehand. I will then request one of your keys, the other you will lock away, preferably in a lock box, there are lots of lock boxes on Amazon and Ebay. Then I will lock it with you through an initial video call...then the clock starts ticking.

5. What other services do you offer?

There are plenty of add-ons in my pricing list, they can consist of live video chats to keep you in your place, in person locking and un-locking if you are within a reasonable distance, pre-recorded verbal files for you to play and much more.

6. Is this service safe?

Yes, we take great care to ensure the safety of your keys and personal information. However, it is your responsibility to ensure that your chastity device is used safely and does not cause physical harm or discomfort. We are not responsible for any health or safety issues related to the device itself.

7. What happens if I need my key back urgently?

In case of an emergency, you can request the immediate return of your key. This will incur a next day postage fee that will be charged before I post back. I highly recommend clients purchase a lock box with code key so that you can message me in an emergency for an immediate release. You need to ensure you’re comfortable with the procedure for urgent returns.

8. How do you keep my key safe?

Keys and access codes are stored securely, using lockboxes, encryption, or other appropriate methods. Your confidentiality and security are my top priorities.

9. Will my personal information remain private?

Yes, absolutely. All information shared with us is treated as strictly confidential. We will not share or disclose your personal details or key-related information unless required by law.

11. What makes your service unique?

Whilst there are key holder services out there, the market is saturated by females, and as a gay male, I know I would prefer another man taking charge!

I bring a personalized and empathetic approach to key holding. This service is not just about holding a key—it’s about understanding your needs, respecting your boundaries, and ensuring a positive, fulfilling experience.

12. Can I cancel the service?

Yes, you can cancel the service at any time. Please note that fees are non-refundable unless otherwise agreed. Upon cancellation, we will promptly return your key or access information.